No more sex until marriage!?!?

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So me and my boyfriend had a pregnancy scare. In fact I still haven't gotten my period but I've had 4 negative pregnancy tests. I am 16 he is 18. So after all this he said we can't have sex again until we are married and we want a baby. But I am not okay with not having sex anymore. I don't know what to do I want to have sex with him

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In an odd way, that's kinda sweet of him! Definitely more admirable than what I've read lately about how guys have reacted to pregnancy scares!

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Good for him being mature enough to set boundaries. He's not over-reacting. Neither one of you are ready to be parents. Personally you sound like you want to have your cake and eat it too. He's looking it from a perspective of we did use protection and still had a scare. Respect his boundaries or get out of the relationship. You're 16, enjoy being a teenager and worry about adult stuff when you're an adult.

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My best recipe for protection: 
Take birth control (set an alarm to take it on time every day) + use condoms (use them every single time, from the start) + use spermicidal lube + pull out before finishing. Quadruple protected 😛

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If you don't want to respect his boundaries, you could just break up?

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How about use a condom !

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How about respect his choices or move on? malez should NOT pressure females to have sex and femalea should pressure males either. Im sure he knows about birth control and if he doesnt probably shouldnt be having sex in the first place. Also NOTHING is 100% effective against pregnancy unless you dont have sex.

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Get on birth control!

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Just get on birth control and use condoms with spermicide on them. You don't have to stop having sex in order to avoid getting pregnant.

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Abstinence is probably the best idea since you don't want to get pregnant. Sometimes even condoms and birth control don't work. Not having sex is the only thing that is 100% guaranteed.

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How long have you been in birth control? When I was on it I would skip periods sometimes... I would wait a few more days and test again. If it's still negative I would make an apt with your doctor and see if it's just the birth control messing with your cycle.

No more sex until marriage!?!?

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