Deploying husband. Marital advice?

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Please, I need some help.

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My husband was deployed 4 mo after we got married for a year. And even though we had just gotten married we had issues we were working on and were willing to get married either way because we wanted to be with each other. Either way. We delt with trusting each other. I will say this. You need to dig deep inside and let it go. Now. Because he will go through things Over there and if you don't learn to let it go now and you continue to fight about it while he is gone and it will really affect your marriage once he's back. He needs to be 100% focused and have a clear head while he's gone. As wives we need to put our shit aside for the time being when they are in that position. Unless he is doing something NOW that you can prove. Live your life. And be happy. I personally knew woman and soldiers before deployment who didn't come back to their spouses. And it hurt me a lot to know my husband and I spent his deployment fighting over dumb shit the small amount of time we had to talk or before he left when he very well could have been the one not to come home. It's hard to let go. I know trust me. It's so much better to be happy and enjoy yourself. I'm sure his reasons for keeping things out or not tellin the whole truth was because he knew yes he did somethin wrong maybe but didn't want to hurt u or lose u. So just remember he's with you now. Try and focus on the bigger picture of what you both are going to go through during this deployment  as a couple and individuals.

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Think about everything positive, thinking of the past stops you from enjoying the present and future.

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It sounds oversimplified but you just have to choose to trust him implicitly. You are pregnant and your emotions are haywire so it's not surprising this is upsetting to you- be easy on yourself. But worrying about something constantly won't make it happen and it won't make it not happen- it won't affect anything! Focus on building your relationship with your husband in the coming months, and hopefully when he leaves you will feel secure enough to let it go.

Deploying husband. Marital advice?

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