Does anyone feel bad for being pregnant, when the babies you have are still babies? This is my third pregnancy, 3 yr old 18 month old and 21 weeks pregnant. I can't help but feel tereible, and blue for doing this to my babies?

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Not the same but I have a dog that's my baby right now. And I feel bad he won't be my center of attention much longer. I feel bad! 
I bet your kids are excited for a play mate

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I have a 19 month old son who will be around 22 months when my twin girls are born! It'll all be okay :). Me and my three siblings were all two years apart, but by the time I actually have memories of childhood, we were out of what were probably crazy little years for my parents. I know I threw lots of tantrums when my brother was born because I was only two, but what I remember is we all felt loved by our parents and not neglected at all, and I don't remember those years at all. It'll all be okay! Kids can tell pretty well when you love and care for them, even if they feel upset about not getting quite as much attention.

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I'm pregnant with my first now and we are planning to start trying for #2 as soon as the doctor gives the go ahead! My hubby is a lot older than me (he's 40, I'm 27) and we want 3 kids...he doesn't want to be much older with newborns!

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I'm a FTM but my brother was born just after my first birthday. I don't remember mum being pregnant and we grew up really close, almost like twins. If I had the choice I would like mine to be close in age so they grow up together so just relax! X

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I think this is a typical and normal response. I had it with my IRISH twins, 11 months apart, and felt so so guilty about having another baby when my baby needed me. Funny thing is, you figure it out. You'll naturally find ways to spend special  time with each of them and your heart grows two sizes too big!

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No, but then again my baby is 4. Lol I mean some days I'm worried about how I'm going to do it. But other days I'm excited.

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I voted sometimes, because I think it just depend on my mood haha. On more melancholy days I think "wth will another baby do to our family dynamics!?" And want to cry thinking about it. Other times I want to cry with happiness thinking how great my 5 and 3 year olds will be big sibling-wise and how much fun they'll all have.

And yes, we want a "big familiy" and this baby wasn't a surprise, haha, despite my "oh crap!!" Feelings and moments...I think those are normal feelings to have on occasion ;)

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I'm a FTM but I can tell you I was three when my sister was born and I don't remember my mom being pregnant at all. So even if you feel bad your kids most likely won't remember this time anyway. I'm sure you are doing great!

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I have a five year old, a four year old and a two year old, and I'm 22 weeks pregnant. All my boys are super close, that's what I wanted. There's an age gap between my two brothers and me and all my cousins were older as well. I had s very lonely childhood because of it. My kids will never be lonely, all four are boys.

Does anyone feel bad for being pregnant, when the babies you have are still babies? This is my third pregnancy, 3 yr old 18 month old and 21 weeks pregnant. I can't help but feel tereible, and blue for doing this to my babies?

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