This may be kinda long. Four years ago I was a domestic abuse victim, He was my boyfriend and the time and he started off all sweet and everything till one day he became violent. He would hold me by my throat to the bed or bang my head off of the floor or the washer or my steering wheel. I had never been so scared before in my life. How does someone who claims they love you hurt you so bad? I was ready to die. It has been years since this has happened and he has come back from prison and he got a new gf and he did the same thing to her.