He says I’m not an open book.. what does that mean???

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What does that even mean? Yeah I do keep things in. We’re talking about how I went on a group trip with my friend and her husband and his guy friend which is my cousin 🤦🏽‍♀️ I see where he coming from with the other guy going because he didn’t know that was my cousin. I don’t know how to reply to this please help me out.

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I think he’s trying to say that you don’t really communicate with him maybe? Like when you went on this trip he thought this other guy was just some random dude and he was worried about it the entire tome you were gone and he had no clue it was your cousin. 
My husband is that way sometimes. On his days off he may go over to a friends house while I’m at work and not tell me. So when I get home assuming that he’s been home all day, he starts talking about when he was at his friends house and I’m just like “what?!”. 
That’s just an easy example to understand but my point is, sometimes I feel like I’m in the dark and don’t always know what he’s doing or where he is at and it’s not that I don’t trust him because I 1000% do, but it’s just nice to know what he’s up to. Especially because I literally tell him what time doing allll the time. Habit I guess. 
Hope that made sense? I don’t think he’s insecure or trying to cause an argument. I think he just wants you to be considerate of him wanting to know what’s going on? I dunno. Ha

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He basically wants you to open up but do so with caution...the bit of his message seems like he was almost telling on himself....in a weird way

He says I’m not an open book.. what does that mean???

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