Hi there

So I am on the patch, but it has been sliding a bit and I haven’t felt overly secure on it so we also used a sponge and condom. We had sex together for the first time for both of us and it was beautiful! However - the condom on him for some reason had wrinkles right around the end of his...member. It fit tightly elsewhere and he has foreskin so don’t know if that makes a difference. When he took it out of me after he had finished the condom had LOADS of room left at the end (not just the little tip reservoir - the condom at the end had about 2 inches left over with semen in it all baggy. We also noticed it began getting baggy at the end of the condom because it had wrinkles around the top when we put it on. We smoothed them all out, pulled the foreskin back beforehand, but it still happened. He’s 6 inches.

So after he had finished and took it out and had such s baggy end filled with semen, he said it was so extreme because his erection was now gone so there was more space there...so does that usually happen? Normal? as far as I am aware, the condom didn’t slip down his shaft at all, it was still close to the base before he took it off so I don’t see how semen could have escaped? It also didn’t break to the best of my knowledge.

Also, I had the sponge in for about 20 hours total and this was about 3 days ago. Today my underwear is soaked all over with yellow discharge. I’ve ever known anything like it!? It’s concerning me a bit that perhaps it’s a sign of semen or something? Potentially I could have developed a yeast infection more likely? I have no need to be paranoid about pregnancy right? I’ve not thought about it too much but the more I think about the baggy condom filled with semen at the end the more I worry!

Thank you