Patch users question

So I just started using the patch a few weeks ago( I’m currently in my patch free week) and I’m just curious where others found that works best to put the patch on.

I can’t wear it on my butt because my boyfriend likes to play with my butt a lot. I tried putting it on my shoulders but my bra and cami kept catching on the patch. At least on one shoulder it did but not the other when I switched my patch out. So I’m just curious where you ladies found works well for wearing the patch. Any advice you have would be appreciated. Thanks!