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If you were manipulated into "emotionally cheating" with someone, but did not do anything sexually at all and just kept your thoughts to yourself, but your boyfriend was always busy himself and even went to a concert on a day you really needed him, is that considered as cheating or not worth a second chance? Is it worth it to let yourself be called a cheater, childish and pathetic? And about the childish part, keep in mind that the person got with her boyfriend when she was sixteen, and he was eighteen. He had girlfriends in the past but she never did. She was also expected to marry him as soon as she finishes university.

Please help.