let me just say, how ridiculous is it that women are all against each other over a man! granted yes partly the girl is the problem and you hate her HOWEVER, YOUR MAN is the one you need to have a problem with. HE owes you loyalty, not that other girl. soo why are you so focused on getting her out of the picture when thats his job! if hes not leaving her alone, you should probably leave him alone. chances are the "other woman" didnt even know she was the other woman