Honestly I feel horrible you know when you see those videos of the a kid finding out there have a brother but they wanted a sister I was that kid when I found out in having a boy I cried and was a upset I had my heart on a girl I feel so bad because in going to love it either way but I still can't get over it I never had a brother or had to deal with baby boys im so lost on how to deal with boys I want to be there for my baby but I just feel so lost...