Am I too young?

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So I’m 13 and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I feel like it’s wrong because I am too young. I’ve masturbated and it won’t give me as much pleasure anymore. Should I have sex with my boyfriend or is it too early?

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I lost my virginity at 17 and I still wish I would have waited. You are so young, and there is always a chance of getting pregnant when having sex. Not trying to sound rude, but if you aren't in a place to be raising babies, you aren't in a place to be having sex. I think your initial feeling of it being too soon is right. Side note, I felt like giving my body to a boy would make him like me more, but it didn't. Our relationship went from being best friends, to him just wanting me for my body all the time. That was an awful feeling. Anyone who respects you will respect your decision to say no. Please have enough courage to say no and leave a situation if you don't feel right about it. That way, when you're my age, you won't have any shame to carry. I wouldn't wish those feelings on anyone. Maybe invest in a vibrator or find some new ways to pleasure yourself!

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I would wait. I lost mine at 16 and the guy was a douchebag. I wish I had waited for a different person

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Hey girl, I was in a situation like you when I was about your age. I am SO glad though that I didn’t lose it at that age! I always told myself I would wait for the right person, that I knew it had to be with someone I TRULY LOVED. Don’t give it up just because your horny. Sex is more than just the act. It comes with energy. Spiritual, mental, physical energy. Wait until you know for sure it is right. That it feels right in all aspects. If you are questioning if you want to, then don’t do it. Trust me you’ll know when you’re ready. I lost mine at 16, and to a man I truly loved. And here wasn’t any hesitation or doubt. That’s how you know! 😉

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What you do is your choice, but do it safely. Use a condom and no matter what he says, do not let him go inside you without one on. Even if you guys are already doing it and either of you want to stop, stop. You have the right to change your mind.

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It’s your choice. But if I were you, I’d wait. I lost my virginity at 17 to a man who turned out to be a TOTAL ASS and I wish I’d waited. My first time with my (now) husband was amazing. It was nerve-racking and my legs were shaking! But it was literally the best sex I’ve ever had in my life. I met him at 20- the couple extra years would have been nothing! 🔥

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you can and will make you're own choice but bear in mind you are not legally able to consent that young and can get into serious trouble if you're boyfriend is too much older. 
Also bear in mind that at 13 your body is not developed yet as far as having intercourse goes. God forbid your method of protection fails, how will you raise a child? Pay for an abortion ($900+)? Handle the emotional distress of adoption before you can even learn to handle your own emotions?
If you can't tell your mom in this moment you want to have sex/had sex how will you tell her you are pregnant or have an STD?

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Just make sure it’s what you both want.Make sure he treats you well. In my opinion you can do it whenever you feel ready.use a condom please

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