Hemorrhoids please help

Kristen

I’ve had bad hemorrhoids for awhile, basically since 2015 when I got pregnant with my son. This pregnancy (24 weeks today) I have had terrible constipation which obviously leads to terrible hemorrhoids. Today I have them so bad my husband said it looks like a prolapsed butthole and that I need to go to the hospital. However I’m not going to the ER for hemorrhoids. Nothing and I mean nothing helps them. Even when I’m having regular/soft BMs, if I sit on the toilet after I pee for too long I start to get hemorrhoids. I need serious help or need to know if you’ve experienced this if you ended up needing surgery? And what it was like?

I posted this in health and lifestyle too because I wasn’t sure where to post.