We are a close family always have always celebrated each other’s birthday it’s a tradition well my cousin is having a Welcoming she already had her baby. Her baby is almost 2MO now we’ll my husband his birthday is coming we obviously had plans to do something we always do even if it’s small. Well she invited us to go and it’s the same damm weekend his birthday falls on like you had a wholeeeeeee month why that same weekend? And I really hate it this because I’m the person who likes to be in one place all together. Or have my family all together have a good time you know. Now since this is happening were guna have two parties in two different places which means families are going to go to one place then go to the other house. And yea it would be a nice idea to get all together but some of they’re family isn’t really that welcoming they’ll just be in they’re own group in the far end won’t even speak to you. You just pretty much talk to who ever you came with. So o well I didn’t want to but I guess we’re going to have to do ours too the same day. That day works for us better. It just pisses me off that why why that same weekend I understand people might say o “well she can do it any day she wants” yea your right but I would have to add more details for pple to understand idk I just feel like that was shady