This is his 4th kid but my 2nd. He has 3 from his previous marriage 1 being biologically his and the other two from his ex cheating. I have one from being raped at 17. This is our first together. I'm now 23 and he is 37. Last night we was talking about after the baby is born. He wants me to get my tube (Yeap only have one) tied, but I dont really want to do that. Then he wanted me to get on birth control, but I have never been on it. And have only gotten pregnant twice, this child being my second. I'm not sure what to do.