okay ladies, this was our first month trying after 6 years of the ‘withdrawal’ method, lol.

so, i’m 23 & my husband is 25. were both healthy, i haven’t drank alcohol in over 4 months, my husband might drink a couple of beers over a weeks time. he is a non smoker, i was vaping 3 mg nicotine & got down to 0% when i started feeling the symptoms. i have been taking prenatals with DHA, iron, 800% folic acid, all of the vitamins. i’ve taken a few prescriptions over the month but not any that i have read to be harmful to a baby so early on. lastly, i had a pap smear and transvaginal ultrasound that all came back flawless.

okay, that’s a lot of info. and probably useless. i just wanted to give the details so maybe i can get an accurate idea of what my risk of miscarriage might be.

i guess i read soo many stories of people miscarrying their first pregnancy that i’m petrified. i guess i just want to know if anyone like me (4 weeks today) has any reliable information or positive first pregnancy stories?

so sorry. i know what causes a miscarriage, i just wonder if all those details may lessen my chances.

thank you so much, & please be nice. first time mom fears.