kinda bothering me

So we are in bed and I tell him I’ll get him off. So I start giving him a blowjob... I was also trying to get off myself so I was doing stuff to myself. He kept telling me how to do it and not in a sexy way. He finally came and I was sitting there kinda wet. Then he just fell asleep... he won’t touch me. I’ve told him multiple times how I feel. He always tells me I ask for sex to much. He just makes me feel gross and not really wanted.