sex advice

my boyfriend and i have been together almost 11 months. during this time, he has never come during sex (and neither have i, but i understand it is difficult for some women). he only comes from blowjobs and masturbation. this happened at the beginning of our relationship, where he could only come through masturbation, but now he can through bjs too. he says this is from too much masturbation. So we both don't feel as satisfied at the end of sex, and i worry it doesn't feel good for him at all. also, i don't usually feel horny or get turned on easily but i don't really know why, I'm still attracted to my boyfriend. we never really have sex regularly either-for a while i had recurrent yeast infections, sex was painful so we had to stop and the pill i'm on gives me a period every other week. to top it off, sex just isn't that fun, it's usually in the same position in the same place and the same thing happens: we just decide to stop because neither of us can finish, then he gets a bj and sometimes he will touch me. what can i do? i want both of us to feel satisfied with our sex lives and i think at the moment we aren't. has anyone got any advice? I plan to speak to my boyfriend later about this but I don't really know what to say because neither of us have really addressed this even though I think we're both feeling it. Sorry for the long post, I don't really know what to do because sex is an important part in our relationship.