Ok this is my issue alright I'm big on "COMMUNICATION" and "TRUST" in a relationship and I have a good guy but I cannot seem to fall madly in love with him due to his communication department. I constantly remind him of what I desire and what I expect of him, I'm doing my part as a fiancé. But here is the thing he have been married twice and I don't know what else to do or say to get through to him that I yearn for communication. I feel like because he feel like as long as he taking care of bills,cook and clean which we both do. He feel like that what's all it take to keep a woman or keep a relationship. Honestly it's more to it than just paying bills,cooking and cleaning. I'm not being hard on him ladies I just want to be love right, Everyone is different. Like I said he have been married twice I'm not sure if he still have open wounds that haven't been healed yet or bitterness(IDK).How will I ever know if he never opens up about anything toward me. And when we do talk it's only everyday basic stuff we talk about everyday. I did mention seeking counseling(he said ok but never went forward with it)I cannot walk into marriage like this

Something needs to be done asap. I've did all I could do he have to do his part and the take things into his own hands. I cannot walk with him every step of the way some steps maybe just for him to deal on his own. Ladies I've had this talk with him he said he don't see what he doing is wrong of course your not examining yourself to see what is it you need to fix about yourself. I'm mentally,physically,emotionally drained.PLEASE HELP ME

Should I give him a alternative?

Should I give him a date?(to fix this)seek help

Helpppppppppppppppp

Should I put the wedding on hold we were going to get married September 29,2018