Difference between getting married at 20 then having a baby at 20?

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Why is it ok for people to twll me I am making a bad choice for being married so young but otherwise may have lots of babies with whomever they want and jump from guy to guy.. not hold down a job  and cheap living in other places.. I don't understand

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I don't understand the question. Being ready for marriage and being ready for a child are two different things, that involve two different types of commitment.

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I voted it's not the same commitment but not because marriage is more so of a commitment. Marriage (in my opinion, no offense to anybody) is just a piece of paper. That's it. So I agree with you in the sense that people having babies that are criticizing you and your marriage are complete jokes and have no right. You're bringing a human being into this world that has total dependency on you that you can't just divorce, wayyyyy more of a commitment.

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Honestly i would prefer you wait a couple of years to do both. But if you must i would much rather you get married before children, but i am old fashioned that way....

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I think people should leave other people's happiness alone. When you hit 18, 21, etc.. You are in charge of making whatever decision will make you happiest whether that be marriage or kids. If it was a parent I could understand them having an opinion on it. I met the love of my life when I was 19. I'm now 20 and we're having a baby and planning on getting married next year. If you're mentally and financially stable and want to have a baby at 20..go for it. If you want to get married to the person you love at 20...Do it. No one else is going to live out your life and your happiness but you :)

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I'm married, but I will never be ready for kids.

Difference between getting married at 20 then having a baby at 20?

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