My SO and I have very little interaction, especially from him. If I try then I get "shushed" and told to "go watch tv." It's insulting. If we r in public he will grab my throat and put a hand signal of a gun to my head (playfully, but still ruff) and if I stop him and tell him to not do that because it's embarrassing because we r in public and it's degrading he gets mad that I told him what to do. Is this normal for a guy to do or is he overbearing and selective with affection?