Boyfriend drama

Okay so I’m 16 and my boyfriend is 14, him and I have been together for almost two months and we’ve barley been apart since the beginning, BUT he’s never brought me to his place. Like at all he wont even tell me where he lives, and yesterday I was gonna go to his place FINALLY and I was so excited. He was on my phone fooling around I guess and texted my grandmother asking her to pick me up. handed me my phone, and then took off out my moms door saying he was going to a “friends” and for the rest of the night and still now ive been crying and just rly emotional cuz this hurt me. But I can’t tell him, because if I do he says I make him feel like shit or he’s not good enough for me or he goes off and does/says some pretty scary shit. I just don’t know what to do cuz this isn’t the first time this has happened