My fiancé and I have been living together for a month and we’re expecting a baby in a few months. Ever since living together I’ve become apparent that he masturbates in bed while I’m getting ready. The proof is in his boxers, which after he gets up are wet with his cum. The thing that bothers me is that he never wants to have sex/fool around in the morning, because he thinks it’s gross (our breath, the fact that we’re not showered yet), but he can masturbate?

He’s made me feel unattractive through this pregnancy, he’s made comments like your belly gets in the way, or your nipples are getting really long, your boobs are getting really veiny, ect.

I did confront him with his boxers yesterday because he left them on my laundry pile!

I guess I’m frustrated that he would rather masturbate than fool around with me. Also, the last time we were intimate he asked if I wanted to jerk him off while he watched porn, like wtf?

I don’t care if he’s masturbating, just don’t do it while I’m home!

How can I stop my brain from going literally nuts over this??

Update: I have expressed how I feel about it and he just doesn’t seem to care.