Me and my husband have been together for about a year and a half and let’s just begin by saying he is beautiful. Body, heart, and mind, he is endlessly attractive to me. Let’s also establish that I know that my love language is touch so it’s extremely important to me that we are physical. In the beginning of our relationship, our sex drive was pretty 50-50 and we had sex a few times a week, and I loved it. But as you know, life and school and jobs get in the way and he comes home tired every single night. He works so very hard for the things we have and I am appreciative of him. However, my sex drive gives me the feeling that I’m crowding him. Every one of these questions I’ve looked into has to do with the male party wanting sex all the time and the female not being as interested, and I feel crazy for being the opposite! I crave my husband, not just sex, but snuggling and touching and intimacy. We are great at vocalizing our love to each other often and we have a strong bond. We are what you would call “lovey-dovey” but just not physically. I’m DYING. But every time I try to initiate sex, I get gently swerved. For example, he’ll get out of the shower and snuggle down in our bed only wearing boxers (like, UGH 🤤), so I slide closer to him and began talking to him while running my fingers through his hair and massaging his back. He loves this but as I get closer to his lower half he will flip over, grab my wrist, and gently kiss them and put them back on my chest. He will kiss me on the head and tell me how much he loves me and that he hopes that I sleep good. I want him so badly! Any advice?? Thanks!