I dated guy like that, all he talked about after we got together was work and what he did sexually. Sexually he failed in that department, he couldn't uphold his truths, well only 1% of that and that was it! I was disappointed. He was on this kick of trying to take care of me, it didn't happen. That's how I ended up with another job now. Nothing seemed real, it seemed like a joke, I didn't say anything about his job and I damn sure didn't stroke his ego. During the time we dated that's all he talked about, but when I asked about small vacations or little stuff, he would always say, "When the money come in you can do that!"; a few years passed and nothing. I never recieved little things or gestures. No flowers or anything. I felt left out, his job was more important than me. He didn't get deep into talking about his job until after we started dating, he was always "BUSY", I didn't like that too well, so I tried talking to him about it, it didn't work. So, I got distant and left. You talk a big game then you betta follow through.