Baby shower after loss?

So we lost our son stillborn at 8 months. We had our baby shower maybe 10 days before I delivered him, so needless to say I felt bad for even having one.

Good news however, we’re expecting again after a year and a half, and just found out its a boy again!

We parted ways with most of our things from the shower for grieving purposes (my sister in law was having a boy shortly after our loss so I gave her a lot of the stuff)

Is it okay to have another shower? We’re high risk this time as well so we could lose our baby this time too. 😭

I don’t feel like I can celebrate being pregnant again if it could end the same.

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