My DH and I are 24 & are wanting to move from this little town where we live. I feel like it's too lonely. The only family we have here are my parents. They are always busy for church. After all, they are ministers and pastors the church. I however, have a different view. I believe in God and all but it feel we never have time as family. They are constantly nagging me about going to church. I was raised in church. And they have always been so strict on me and my sisters. Me being the oldest. My sisters are 17 & 2. They say I'm a bad mother for not teaching my daughter to go to church. I don't stop my daughter from going, I just don't want to go to my parents church. They have hurt me and a lot of people have judged me. I hate being a pastors daughter. I feel like a bug under a microscope. They are watching my every move. I'm human too.  And is another reason why I want to move. Move back where I'm from. But I've never done a big step like this. How do people get started in moving? Do you find a place first or a job first?