We finally move in and he being odd

Hey all

Need some advice. So my SO and I just moved in together and I feel as though we drifted apart. We have yet to have sex or fool around and it frustrates me as I thought we’d be somewhat closer. He said with our schedules being off it doesn’t work out also that he has deadlines such as getting ready for a job interview Monday morning and homework deadlines. I was lucky enough to be able to shower with him but he had to be at work so couldn’t do anything. Anyway, what should I do he says be patient but I kinda can’t be at this point and I refuse to keep using shower head. Someone plz help any advice is welcome.