Do to recent events in my life, I've taken more interest than ever in protecting my child, among others. I can educate him about sex, I can educate him about "stranger dangers"... but based on everything I've read so far, it seems protection against some of the worst things are confusing to children in certain situations.. example: the pedophile is part of the family, thus confuses the child because you're supposed to trust family, right? It's heart wrenching, I know. So I'm sorry to even bring it up.

So what I want to know is what have you/are you going to do to protect against this? What are you ideas over how we could reduce risks? What are some "red flags" you feel we should look out for, large or small. Any other thoughts?

Please share.

(I feel some of you may know who's posting this, I will likely be in the comments. Please do not blow my cover, and again, numerous thank yous for all that supported me. I just want people to draw on the question, not the poster.)