No matter what I do, my LO (10 days) always screams bloody murder for at least 15-30 minutes before latching. I've tried letting her sleep a little longer between feeds, different holds, letting her suck my finger before feeding, music, shushing... Nothing seems to work. Once she latches, she'll only feed for about 20 minutes total (between both sides)

It just drains me emotionally to try to settle her ever time, especially during the late night feeds. I cry almost every feed. Please tell me there is either something I can do, or that this is a short phase we're just working through.