I'm 32 and have had 2 MC in a row despite being as careful as possible to avoid anything that could hurt my babies. I just saw my cousin who is 7 months pregnant completely by accident (young, no job, just broke up with Baby Daddy, etc). This was already difficult as she talks about feeling the baby kicking etc since she got pregnant 3-4 weeks before I did the first time. But then she goes out to smoke. Really? I didn't know people still smoked while pregnant since it can cause SIDS and cleft lip/palette. Ugh! It just made me angry. Ok. Rant over. Thanks for listening. :(