So there’s this guy that I have recently been liking A LOT. We work together as cashiers and i met him a few months ago.

Every time we work together we talk when it gets slow. Like most girls who like a guy I decided to do my fair share of social media snooping on him (don’t even try to say you’ve never done it) and the first thing that I noticed on his fb was a girl in his profile pic so i prayed to god it was his sister... it wasn’t.

I went in deep and found out they’re in a long distance relationship.

Immediately I knew I had to take a step back bc I know what it’s like to have another girl coming onto my man. it sucks. I thought it was really weird that he hadn’t mentioned her to me bc we actually met on Valentine’s day... that’s a really good day to bring that kind of thing up imo.

It’s been about 2 months and we work almost every shift together, our registers next to each other and he still has never said anything about her. It’s kind of shady. Most guys I’ve met will tell me about their girlfriends asap. It’s like he doesn’t want me to know she exists.

Last night at work it felt like we had one of those ‘moments’ you know that moment when you’re standing really close to someone looking in their eyes until something interrupts you... one of those.

I know it’s wrong of me so please don’t get mad and go on a rant of how wrong it is. But I do need some advice and I really want to know why he hasn’t mentioned someone he loves.