Ive known since I’ve had a child I heard my life Is no long er my own and I should put my child first. I totally agrees she should be number one but at what cost?

I constantly let people (meaning my family)bully me into decisions such as when I got pregnant( -I did make one decision and that was to not get an abortion like my mom suggested-).

I’m a single mom of a little baby’s but before that I was a college student on my own.

Most people would be like why would u want to leave a rent free place, and being taken care of and family support.

I wan to move to find myself as a provider for my child. I feel like my parents though I really appreciate it still treat me like a child. I don’t feel like my child’s mother and it’s affecting how I feel about myself . I love being a mom but I feel trapped because poeple tell me I can no longer live out my desires.

My mother would be 6 hours from where I move with my daughter. Her father lives where I want to move and in that it does make me worried since he doesn’t do anything for her although he says he wants to but he’s not the reason I want to move back.

My school is where I want to move and I’m currently a junior at the college. I’m just confused as to what is right and or wrong. Is it selfish of me to want to move away from them to find out who I am as a mother? As a person? Is this a risk I should be willing to take...what is everybody’s opinions?