My SO and I along with our son have been staying with a friend for a few weeks to help out with their kids (ages 2 and 6 months) cause (she’s sick) and her husband works. Well a few days ago her husband asked my SO if we would make be in to help with bills because he’s afraid to loose their house. Honestly when he told me my immediate response was no I just found out I’m pregnant with baby #2 and I’m constantly moody and I need my own space. Well they offered us our own room but when to came to plans of where to put stuff in their like tv,clothes ect. It was well you can’t put this here it needs to go their and I have to put stuff in here for storage and honestly I’m just not feeling it I told SO I couldn’t handle it and we were gonna pack up and head home now I look like the bad guy and I’m conflicted I don’t know what to do but I just feel in my gut this is a huge bad idea and SO agrees but we both feel awful cause we don’t want them to lose their place..