Baby name

So I just found out we are having a boy! I thought it was a boy since I was 7 weeks. My friend is due with her first boy a couple months before me. At first I wanted to tell everyone the name we decided on, but now my husband wants to keep it a secret.

What if my friend names her baby the same name we picked out, coincidentally? Can I still use it? Am I going to look like a name stealer?! Even if I did share it with her first, what if she does really steal it?!

I don’t know why this is occupying my brain, but it is. 😩