Embrace your inner squirter

Squirting for me was something I didn’t discover until I was 23. To be totally honest I thought I peed on the guy, but he told me that it was totally normal, and hot, I became fascinated with it. I soon started dating a girl who was a “squirter”.

I soon learned that there is a method to this madness. I was taking a tantric sex course, and posed the question of how to do this properly to my teacher. She explained how it works energetically, and physically.

I feel like it’s time to share the method.

It’s simple really. The energetic body is the key. Put one hand on your vagina and one on your heart, close your eyes, and just try and feel the link of energy, that as you breathe into your heart, flows down to your genital base hand, now imagine that same energy, flowing upwards up the spine up your back, just behind the heart, and making a loop, an energetic circuit. This is the feminine “yin” direction, it’s a receptivity. During sex it would be pulling up your back the energy of your partner. If masturbating you can imagine your hand be the masculine giving energy and your vagina being the receiver.

In Tantra, they use a muscle called the pc muscle to assist in this action. It is a small muscle between the vaginal opening and the anus, it’s the muscle you contract when you hold your pee.

Taking quick inhales one after the other, also called “dragon breath” can also help raise the energy.

So if in the heart and down the front, then in the vagina and up the back in feminine, imagine switching that around and you have the masculine energy. Pulling in and tecieving from your heart, and pulling down your back then pushing the energy out the genitals, and upward up the front to the heart.

When with a partner it would create a full circuit, one partner receiving and one giving, making a circle.

For squirting, this is how it works, methodically:

While stimulating yourself, do the “dragon breath”, quick inhalation’s, while, contracting the pc muscle, and pulling the energy up your back, do this as much as you can and relax, for and instant letting the energy go down your front. Do this again, and you will notice the energy you collected the last time, in the heart or head, will be stronger, like its pooling, and growing. Keep doing this, until you notice the consistency of the vagina change, it will become dry, and rough, almost like a cats tongue, and contract, this is because the blood is pooling in the area and the squirt is accumulating, keep going until you feel a sort of pressure and need to pee. Then reverse the direction of energy and become the masculine energy, shooting all that energy you pooled in your heart and head, intensely down the front of the body and out the genitals.

If this doesn’t work the first time keep trying. Keep squirting until it’s all out, or just go pee. Not doing this will most likely result in a Urinary Tract Infection. Important lol.

Keep hydrated, drink some electrolyte drink, I suggest coconut water and you will be a happy squirter in no time 🍑💦