My husband is a big butt head!So after 4 years of begging crying and pleading for a 3rd child, my husband said said yes a couple of months ago. Since then he has been so mean about it (and has yet to actually ejaculate inside of me). He has made it a point to make sure that I know the "rules" of having another child. He has told me multiple times that he will not help at all caring for the baby and it will be 100% my responsibility. This in addition to the fact that I work full time and I do take very good care of our 2 kids and take care of them by myself 4 days a week bc of his work schedule he's not around. We also have no family support since he doesn't want to live near his family and I no longer have any living relatives. And he's always saying "and you think you need another baby when you get stressed now?" but I feel like he is has put a lot on my plate and then uses that as the reason not to have a baby. And he said "I guess we'll have to pay for daycare since I'm not going to help take care of it" I'm like so you want me to work full time, take care of a baby by myself and not use child care!?!? (with our first 2, we worked opposite shedules to not use child care and I only worked part time) I feel like he's making it miserable for me on purpose so I'll give up on wanting a baby. With everything he has put me through with this issue in our marriage, I see him different now and don't think he's the man I thought he was. We have been married for 15 yrs and I feel like I'm used and not heard in our marriage. I feel like I'm done with this marriage But that means Ill never get to meet my baby 😢 I have been begging for years for marriage counseling but he refuses to go.