Family relationship advice.. EDITED

My brother has been living with me for a little over a month. He hasn’t “found a job” my husband sent him a link to apply for his job and said they could ride together if he gets second shift. (My brother doesn’t have a car) he said he’d look into it and we never heard anything else. He’s been living her destroying my house and stressing me out. I ask him to do small things like watch my 4 year old while I run down the street to Walmart at midnight or take out the freaking trash when he sees the can is full but he does none of that. My water and electric bill have gone from $40 to 80 the month that he’s been here. All he does is play video games all day and dirty up dishes for us to wash.

About 3 years ago he had an apartment and his own car. I had nowhere to go with a baby after my mom kicked me out And he wouldn’t let me stay with him. Now he’s in the same position and honestly in the back of my mind I keep thinking about how he wouldn’t help me. I just want to kick him out. What would you do?..

Edit ... the problem is my family is acting like hes my responsibility. They want me to inconvenience my life so much for him. My aunt has threatened to stop watching my son while I work if I kick him out. It’s just a fucked up situation