Mixed Emotions... Advice?

Chelsea • Mommy to a 4 year old Princess 👑 veterinary receptionist 🐶🐱

Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for a little while now. And we were friends even before we dated. We are planning on getting married, but just haven’t set a date or anything yet. But we are really serious. We have both been married before and have both been divorced now for many years. I have a 4 year old daughter from my marriage and he has no kids. And we want one of our own. We have been having unprotected sex because if I do get pregnant, we would both be extremely happy and are both ready for a baby. But now that I’ve had pregnancy symptoms for the last 2 days (period should come within the next week if I’m not) I’ve been getting scared. But I’m only scared about the fact people may talk shit because we aren’t married and will be having a baby. Now I know I shouldn’t care what people think and I know it’s a lot more common now. But I have severe anxiety and I worry about people talking crap, etc. I know it should only matter that it’s what we want and that we are ready for it. But like I said, we aren’t married yet.. we both want a baby SO bad. And I really feel like this may be it this time! I’m just so scared about other people’s opinions...