Just wondering what are your experiences with sex after having a baby? Does it feel different? Can your SOs tell a difference? Do you still feel sexy? I’m not pregnant but i am a newly wed. We are taking precautions to not become pregnant because i am not ready yet. He is so ready to have a baby and brings it up daily but I’m just not there yet. My biggest fear is losing “us”. I love the attention we give each other and our sex life and how much he loves me and is obsessed with me. Is it wrong to not want a baby because I’m afraid i will lose his full attention? What if child birth makes him think different of me sexually? Just things i think about! Feel free to tell me about your love/sex life after having a baby! :)