How do I confess cheating?

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A friend talked me into cheating for “reassurance” to know he’s the one I want to marry. I was drunk so I did it and the whole time I new it was gross and wrong and I felt so bad for what u was doing half way through I stopped and I went inside and passout from being drunk and guilty. The next morning I realized I got my assurance that the man I want to marry is my boyfriend but I was also assured my self I am so dumb and made the worst mistake ever and put our relationship in jeopardy. I don’t know why I listens to my friend who told me to cheat. I was so happy and in love and ready to marry this guy. This also happened the second month of our relationship after a big fight we had but we’ve been togeather for a while no and the guilt is just eating away at me. I know a lot of you guys will tell me I am a disgusting whore, thank you I have realized that. I just need advice on what to do. How should I tell him I cheated jf I should tell him at all. I want to tell him because I have respect for him he deserves to know, but I know it will hurt him because he is always saying there is nothing I could ever do to make him stop loving me besides cheating but I mean I cheated drunigly way back when. Please help what do I do how do I tell him in the softest way possible.

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You can start by not blaming your friend for your actions.

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Do not make any excuses. Believe it or not, it makes you sound worse. It makes you seem like you don't feel bad at all. 
Literally just tell him you cheated, you messed up, you feel guilty, and you are so sorry and completely understand if he decides not to stay with you..
Good luck

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Either way you slice it drunk or not you cheated. It sounds like you are putting some blame on your friend as well. First off no one can force you to cheat that is your decision drunk or not. But you are absolutely right you should tell him. He has a right to know. Your going to have to take that risk of him leaving or not. Don’t sit there and feel bad though. Your gonna have to get passed it as well as he is. And also take full responsibility of it without the excuses of your friend “pressuring you”

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You just need to be straight up. Just sit down and explain to him what happened. You made a mistake. Give him space. If he wants to be done with you, let it be. It's not okay or fair to him that you cheated. Whatever you do, don't create excuses and try to justify what you did. You made your bed, unfortunately you now have to lie in it.

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It’s a good idea to tell him for sure. Be prepared to take full responsibility for your part in this. Don’t try and put it on your friend in any way. Drunk or not, you had the doubts & you agreed to do it. Ask your partner if you can talk to him about something important & just tell him that you need to apologize to him for something you did and tell him when and what you did. Apologize and be open to hearing whatever his feelings are about it. Do not try and defend yourself, that may make things worse. Just acknowledge that you messed up and answer truthfully. It’s gonna be tough. All the best to you

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Just tell him! Im sure you would wanna know if he cheated on you! And good luck guys are more hard to forgive and forget! And dont tell him you were drunk and that your friend”made” you bc its bullshit and it wont make it better!

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