in-laws suck. the end.

Michelle is my husband’s psycho bitch sister who isnt allowed around my child. I’m not sure if that story ever got told on here, but ya know. Basically, my husband decided we weren’t going to his grandpas house for the 4th of July weekend (HE made the decision - I just texted Michelle and Jacob’s mom to let them know what he said and that I was going to talk to him about it). Literally shouldn’t have been a big deal. But she made it one. Went off on me, saying it was my choice and I’m trying to keep my baby from that side (everyone seems to think my husband isnt an adult who makes his own decisions). I was keeping my mouth shut but then she basically said I’m a bad mom (when I know for a fact I’m a damn good mom doing the best I can) and trying to shame me for breastfeeding, saying he was going to grow up awkward like me and only know my tit. She also called him ugly when she was sent a picture after he was born but then wanted to play aunt of the year. Like no. My husband went off on his sister, and she tried saying she never said anything like that to me but he had the screen shots. My husband then put those screenshots on Facebook, and his entire dads side and some of Michelle’s friends start attacking me on there. It was a huge mess but never had anything to do with Jacob’s father. BUT ANYWAYS. That’s the basic gist of what went down when Wyatt was about three and a half months old. Jacob’s dad hasn’t seen him since Easter of last year, minus the picture I included of Wyatt in his Christmas gift and the ones i sent him yesterday. His last response after I sent the last one was hooray.

I am seriously so pissed off and just done with that entire side of the family, minus Jacob’s grandma. Even if she decided to be shitty towards me, I would still deal with her because I know she means so much to Jake. She was the only reason he ever went to family functions on that side and she’s the reason I try to get Jake to go. I wish he’d call her more at least but ANY WAYS.

At least I can move on from this entire family and know I tried. I tried being nice. I tried inviting them to be part of Wyatts life - even some of the ones who treated me so shitty got invited to his birthday party by me because I wanted to be the bigger person. I even made sure to invite Jacob’s dad, although I used Jake’s phone and acted like him, because Jake didn’t want to. I have tried over and over to let them see Wyatt and i get shit on over and over. But no more. I’m done. He doesn’t need to be involved with Wyatt or our womb nugget. I won’t stop Jake from speaking or seeing his dad but he will not come around my children or me. No one from his dad’s side will besides his grandma, if she chooses to. If not, well, I can’t make her and I’m done trying.