She's playing with his head
**Rant** Sorry in advance for the long post. Here's some back story. My SO has this friend named Rachel. He wanted to be with her at one point but she was so back and forth and they never did get together. I knew that he still talked to her when we got together and didn't care. I trust him. Well, she supposedly got pregnant about 6 months back and had an abortion. She was all upset and turned to Jordan for support. He is totally against abortion but felt bad for her so tired to help where he could. Fast forward 3 months. She sent him a text saying that she was pregnant again and also sent ultrasound pictures. She was only about 6 weeks along according to her text but the picture was the same as my 12 week scan when I was pregnant with my son. The pictures were also from two totally different providers in the same say but she cropped them so her name wasn't showing. I instantly told him that she was playing him again and to be careful. A week or so after that, she went back to texting him about having an abortion and she was all upset. Once again, he tried to offer her advice. It was getting to the point where he would get upset to the point where it was effecting me. I talked to him about it and told him that I thought she was playing on his emotions and I didn't appreciate it because it meant he was less invested in me emotionally and him being upset all the time was effecting our whole family I told him then that I bet in a couple months she will either fake a miscarriage or have another "abortion". Fast forward to some more very sketchy ultrasound pictures and more back and forth about her decision. Well, today we had this conversation. I don't feel like I'm being rude by what I said. I did a lot of things that were similar when it comes to being manipulative a several years ago. I see the pattern and it upsets me that he is still failing for it. I don't have any proof that she's faking it, no. There have been so many things that point to that though. It's frustrating that he still cares.




****Update**** I just realized that he told her we were going out of town this weekend. We adopted her dog from her a few years ago and were trying to find someone to watch him while we were gone. We leave tomorrow afternoon. I feel like this is all too good timing on her part. Like, her son had to stay with the cops last night because he had no where to go? What's the next step? She's going to ask him to take care of her son while she's in the hospital so that she can potentially get in the way of our mini vacation? I don't think so. Lol ********Update Again******* So, apparently she found out that her baby daddy was cheating on her. She decided to get really drunk and play with a gun so the cops were called and she is on suicide watch. My questions, why was she drinking if she was pregnant? Two, the hospital picture doesn't show her stomach at all, because she's hiding something?
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