I want to ask in this group because you ladies and gents understand what it's like to lose a child and possibly have had the unfortunate and terrible task of explaining to your living child/children

so my bf and I lost our son after giving birth at 27 weeks due to me developing HELLP Syndrome.

now his ex/ two living sons' mother is back in his inbox asking for co-parenting after completly ignoring and blocking him on everything. yes I am angry over all that but that's for another post to vent...

She wants to finally give co-parenting a chance and work it out. which I am completely over the moon about. sucky timing but still happy all the same.

My boyfriend and I were talking the other night over how exactly we'd want to let the boys know about their baby brother. they're 2 and 1 so it won't really come up for a little bit.

how would you handle this kind of situation? any advice or tips would be appreciated.