Unrealistic expectations?

Rachel
Is it unrealistic for me to expect my gf of 7 months to :
NOT spend copious amounts of time with a group of mostly/sometimes all men? 
Be upfront w said new friends about her current monogamous committed relationship to avoid misguided flirting or persute?
NOT agree to a day trip to the next city over to drop off one guy at the airport, then spend the remainder of the day with a different guy 1-on-1?
NOT canceling our plans last minute to go out and drink w said guys?
NOT accepting a ride home after with one of those guys whom she has known less than a week?
I feel these are reasonable requests from a parter who knows my insecurities w her being around other men in that manner. Who is 12+ hours away from me for the summer. And with whom I have seriously discussed marriage with?
Am I asking too much?