so me and my fiance have been trying to conceive for 11 months now and once again today mother nature showed up! I'm finding it hard to stay positive and I know my OH is absolutely devistated every time my period shows up. He has no children and I have a son from a previous relationship and my OH has raised him as his own for the last four years. I know it would complete him and our family to have a baby together. I feel so guilty every time I have to say 'not this month' when everyone around us are conceiving with no problems!!