GENDER REVEAL NIGHTMARE

So i find out what I’m having in like 2-3 weeks and i really wanted to have a gender reveal were active duty so it’s kind of hard i live 3 hours away from my family. I asked my bestfriend to come with me to get he results so i won’t open them after all she’s been my bestfriend since we were freaking 12 anyways I’m really upset. She literally told me she won’t come not because she can’t but because her Bf who she’s lived with for years doesn’t trust her 😭 i don’t trust anyone else and my mom and sister are both nurses so they can’t drop what they’re doing and come up. My only friend i have where we are stationed is on leave 😭 i feel like I’m being selfish by feeling this way but my bestfriend is being an asshole! I literally knew she was trying to get pregnant but her BF has super LOW T and sperm count so they can’t. I had a MC In October & didn’t include her in everything because i didn’t want her getting super jealous she said she wasn’t upset but happy for me. However actions speak louder i was diagnosed with a SCH and she tells me not to get my hopes up something can happen which it’s gone now and it hurts my heart. Idk what to do