I can’t do this. Toddler problems

My daughter is 2. I can’t handle her anymore. We have to lock food up or she gets into it when you aren’t looking. This morning, at 5am she wakes up and VERY quietly climbs onto the table, then counter, then cupboards and eats 13... 13! Large donuts. The whole box. They are 190 calories a piece. And I put her in timeout, tell her no, make her pick up the mess, take away her toys, and she STILL doesn’t care. She just screams at me until her face is red.

Yesterday she ate a whole pack of gum that her dad had in his work pants that she dug out.

Last week while going PEE for 2 damn minutes she chugs a whole can of Dr Pepper.

The list goes on. She knows she can’t have it. She won’t touch it if she knows your looking or even in the room. We typically don’t buy a lot of junk food but being pregnant, I need snacks lol. I usually have them so high up that even I can’t reach them without a chair for this purpose but she still finds a way.

I just can’t do it anymore. I’m 7 months pregnant and I can’t handle her. 😩😩😩 this makes me not want kids