Help pls

Idk what to do because when I’m little, I get quite upset easily but instead of being caring and such, my daddy just gets quite annoyed at the fact I’m getting upset about stupid stuff and kinda forgets that I’m sensitive atm. I kind of feel bad when I feel big again for putting her in that situation but I also feel likes it’s kind of her responsibility as my caregiver... lately all she’s seem into is the kinky/sex side of it instead of taking care of me. Agh idk what to do because I crave more attention and love when I’m little but I don’t wanna come across as clingy or like an attention whore 🙁 It’s not that she doesn’t know how to be more caring cause she has been before, but she just hasnt been these past few months.