Is it possible for exes to be friends?

Jessica

9 months ago me and my boyfriend broke up and he moved away to another state. When we broke up he said the same thing they always say when 2 people break up which is “I still wanna be friends” Every time someone says that I know they don’t mean it and it’s just a nice way of letting me down. He claims it would be different and he still cares about me just not in the way I want him to. Sometimes I get a hold of him whenever he’s on my mind and the conversations are always short. I also tell him I miss him and he never says anything or acknowledges whenever I say it. I wanna know can exes still be friends?