Being irrational 😑

I know I have zero right to complain because there’s so many women on here that have been TTC for SO much longer than I have been. But this is our 4th month and I just keep feeling like what if we are one of the unlucky ones that go through hell trying to have babies. Like how do so many women just accidentally get pregnant?! Like I said, not looking for sympathy or pitty cause I know in comparison to many we haven’t been trying for long at all. Just didn’t realize how much really goes into all this before we started trying and feeling frustrated 😑